Conception, Pregnancy, Childbirth & Parenting: Workshops, Classes, Events
Maia Midwifery
See Maia Midwifery & Fertility Services‘ support groups and classes offerings. Most are held on zoom.
PregnantTogether
Join PregnantTogether for workshops and events.
Our Family Coalition
Our Family Coalition supports the expanding spectrum of LGBTQ+ families and children through education, workshops, support groups, play groups and other resources. Periodic legal resource clinics to establish parentage protections
Embodied Birth
Embodied Birth offers regularly occurring online classes with a focus on affirming all genders and family structures.
The Center For Family Building
Lisa Schuman and The Center for Family Building offer extensive events, workshops, support groups and other resources supporting all family structures.
COLAGE
COLAGE is one of a kind national organization dedicated to people with one or more LGBTQ+ parents. This network of peers and supports, offers events, education, and written resources including their invaluable Guides. Check out COLAGE Peer Support Groups and more.
Donor Conceived Community
A great organization dedicated to making a better world for donor-conceived people. A great support whether you’ve known for years or just found out you’re donor-conceived, DCC is a safe place to connect with people facing a similar journey. Includes supports for people navigating DNA discoveries (aka ‘misattributed parentage’). Check out DCC’s support groups, education, and resources for donor-conceived people, parents, donors, and the professionals who work with them.
Donor Conception Network
DC Network is the oldest organization of its kind. UK-based, but valuable to all of us. Supports donor conception families, prospective families and donor-conceived people and donors. Offers hundreds of online and in-person events each year, books, groups, newsletters and an extensive website. The invaluable Telling and Talking workshops and resources originated here.
FDA proposes removing ban on sperm donation by men who have sex with men
Over the past 25 years, The Sperm Bank of California (TSBC), National Center for Lesbian Rights, American Medical Association, American Society for Reproductive Medicine, and others have advocated to allow gay men to donate sperm. Because sperm is collected from living donors and can be frozen, quarantined and then retested, this provides a layer of safety not feasible with other cells and tissues. Nonetheless, in 2007, FDA published the “Donor Eligibility Guidance” for human cells and tissues prohibiting the donation of sperm from men who had sex with another man within the previous 5 years, well beyond the testing window for HIV. This guidance in effect ensured that gay men could not donate.
On January 7, 2025, the FDA published Draft Guidance proposing to change its policy for HIV, HBV, and HCV screening that would follow a gender neutral and individual risk-based approach similar to what is now in practice for blood donation. If finalized as set forth in the Draft Guidance titled “Recommendations To Reduce the Risk of Transmission of Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) by Human Cells, Tissues, and Cellular and Tissue-Based Products,” the ability for gay/bi/queer men, transwomen, and nonbinary people to donate cells and tissues, including reproductive donation will significantly improve. Additionally, the Draft Guidance applies a science-based approach to risk reduction, noting that sperm sample quarantine and donor retesting after 6 months further lower any risks. If and when finalized, the FDA donor screening guidance will remove the prohibition against men who have sex with men from donating cells and tissues, including sperm.
As stated in the background section of the Federal Register announcement: “Based on FDA review of the available science, adequacy of available test methods, studies used to evaluate risk behaviors, and experiences with updated blood donor screening questions, FDA also recommends eliminating the HCT/P donor screening questions specific to men who have sex with men (MSM) and women who have sex with MSM and, instead recommends assessing HCT/P donor eligibility using the same individual risk-based questions relevant to HBV, HCV, and HIV risk for every donor regardless of sex or gender.”
The Draft Guidance is open for public comment until February 6th. After the public comment period closes and FDA has an opportunity to consider the comments, FDA will determine whether to finalize it and when to implement it. Comments can be made in support of this change as well as making additional suggestions. We encourage comments supporting this gender-neutral, individual risk-based approach to replace the prior identity-based prohibition.
1/7/25
Interviews
KQED
Alice Ruby speaks with Mina Kim on KQED Forum along with Diane Tober, Daley Dunham & Ryan Kramer. Listen now.
LezBeMommies
Alice Ruby shares “Everything you wanted to know about sperm banks,” from screening donors to talking to your children about donor conception. Listen now.
Choice Moms Approved
Joanna Scheib talks to Mikki at Choice Moms about what donor-conceived adults want to know. It’s one of the top 10 most popular interviews on a wide range of family-building topics. Listen now.
Articles
Family Equality: Dive into Parentage Laws with Attorneys Nesta Johnson, Maureen Leif and Megan Johnson
“I was donor-conceived. Calif.’s only nonprofit sperm bank is the ethical choice.” SF Gate
A Pregnant Trans Man Describes What It’s Like by Alison Motluk at HeyReprotech. This weekly newsletter covers assisted reproduction from all angles. If you are interested in stories like these, subscribe.
Baby Making for Everybody: Family Building and Fertility for LGBTQ+ and Solo Parents
- Goodman, Marea & Rachlin, Ray. Grand Central Publishing, 2022. Midwives Ray Rachlin and Marea Goodman use their professional expertise to demystify the dizzying process of pursuing parenthood as queer and solo people.
Queer Conception : The Complete Fertility Guide for Queer and Trans Parents-To-Be
- Kali, Kristin L. Sasquatch Books, 2022. Fertility guide for LGBTQ+ and single people interested in creating family through pregnancy. Evidence-based, written by an experienced health care provider.
LGBTQ Family Building: A Guide for Prospective Parents
- Goldberg, Abbie. American Psychological Association (APA) 2022. This book provides LGBTQ+ parents and prospective parents with the detailed, evidence‑based knowledge they need to navigate the transition to parenthood, and help their children thrive.
Queer parent perspective
What does it is mean to be an LGBTQ parent planning a family? What does it mean for donor-conceived people (as kids and as adults) to grow up in queer families? Here is a parent’s perspective.
DC dad & openness
Vince Londini: Father of three children conceived by donor conception. Vince provides an important voice not heard enough in the media. See his commentary on openness in families with donor origins.
DC adults speak
Good Morning America talks with LGBTQ+ families
Podcast Dibs: Welcome to the Family. Hear what it’s like to come from a family created with the assistance of a sperm donor. Interviewer Aiden Wood talks with people who have a donor (some who share her donor!) and others from the world of donor-assisted family building.
Requests from individuals and organizations outside TSBC
Seeking donor-conceived people
The Sperm Bank of California is committed to the health, safety and wellbeing of all in our community. We will continue to follow all federal, state, and city health related recommendations regarding COVID precautions for our visitors and staff, and for handling all sperm stored in our facility. We continue to require masking at our facility and ask that anyone who may have COVID reschedule any in-person appointments.
We are a small nonprofit organization and appreciate your patience with delays that may be caused by the COVID pandemic. We continue to experience more shipping delays and supply chain issues than prior to 2020.